Should You Join a Blog or Other Online Support Group?

Over the years, I've been part of several online blog support groups. I think the advantages outweigh the negatives, and I've connected with a lot of interesting writers. But, before you join, you need to decide if it is worth the investment of your time and energy.

Promotion - A support network is a great way to promote your blog and writing projects. But you do need to make the time commitment to read and support the other members. It does take time, depending on the size and frequency of the events in your group.

I'm in one group with over 7,000 members. If you comment or post, expect a lot of email. It's a great way to find other writers and see what they're doing with their social media sites. But your inbox will be flooded when everyone comments or posts.

Social Media - This is a great way to increase your social media followers. I like the ones that make following others optional. You tend to get more true followers who stick around. It's disappointing when you get a boost and then a spike in unfollows quickly behind it. That happened to me once, and I learned my lesson.

Feedback and Support - I like to support other authors on their writing journeys, so I enjoy seeing what other bloggers are up to. I also appreciate the hints and suggestions that they make about marketing, social media, and blog content.

How Do You Find a Group? - Search Twitter or Facebook for "Blog Groups." There are a lot of them out there with different rules for membership and engagement. Visit a while before you join to make sure that your work fits. My goal was to increase traffic to my blog, so I chose several that were not book- or author-centric.

If you're willing to commit the time to spend on social media and your blog, then these groups are a good (free) way to promote yourself. If blogging isn't your cup of tea, there are also plenty of Facebook and Twitter groups to promote your books.

Best wishes with your writing projects!

 

What Happens When You Get off Track with Your Writing?

I try to write each day, but sometimes, life gets in the way. What happens when you get off track? Here are some tips and ideas to get you going again:

1. I find when I get off track that I need to make time and just write. It's easy to get off schedule.  And the more that I stay away, the harder it is to back into the rhythm.

2. Blogging keeps me on a schedule. I've committed to at least one post a week, so I know I have a weekly deadline. I also post regularly with several other groups of writers. Those deadlines help too.

3. I joined a critique group. We have a monthly deadline for our short stories and WIPs (Works in Progress). This gives me another deadline to work towards.

4. If I get stuck and that leads to procrastination, I write blog posts or find a writing prompt and do a writing exercise or two. That usually gets me back in writer mode.

5. I count editing, proofreading, and revising as writing time. Rewrites and tweaks take time. I probably spend more time editing and rewriting than I do putting the first draft together.

6. I also bounce between projects. Sometimes, I'm working on my mystery series. I also write short stories. I like writing both. The short stories are compact with fewer characters, and I can experiment with different locations and themes.

7. Don't be too hard on yourself if you don't write regularly. Sometimes, you need a short break. But make sure that it's short and you're back to being productive. Make sure that you don't miss deadlines or commitments.

8. I tend to get involved in marketing, book signings, writing groups, and social media works, and that cuts into my writing time. I have to make sure that writing gets its fair share of time. It's all work that needs to be done, but you need time to write your next work.

Writers, Don't Forget the Social Part...

Sometimes, writers get so wrapped up in their WIPs (works in progress) or their marketing that they forget the social part of social media. It takes some time and effort to grow and keep your audiences. As you plan your writing time, you need to block some time for the care and feeding of your social media sites.

1. Make sure that your photos and bios are current. Check your links and verify that your contact information is correct. You want to make sure you receive messages from others.

2. Make sure that your content is fresh. You'll lose folks if the content isn't new, or you haven't posted in a while. I try to post at least one thing a day. It's hard some days. You may want to look at scheduling posts. It does save time.

3. Share others' content. It can't be all about you and your book.

4. Comment on others'  posts. Likes are nice, but comments usually start conversations and build activity.

5. Use your social media site to build relationships. I create lists of groups that I follow, so that I can quickly access and share their content.

6. My Facebook posts are set to post automatically to Twitter. I have two different audiences on the two sites, but that ensures that I have fresh tweets throughout the day.

7. Make sure that you thank those who help you, share your material, or review your books.

8. Recognize others. It's nice to cite others' accomplishments.

9. Make sure that you're responsive to comments and conversations. It's not much of a conversation if you don't answer.

Social media platforms are powerful tools for rapidly spreading your message. You'll have much more success if you're part of the conversation and an active participant, rather than just someone who announces his/her next book or sale.

Best wishes with your posts. Let's connect on social media.

Ways to Recharge Your Creativity

Are you stuck in a writing rut? Do you need to recharge your creativity? Here are some ways to jar you out of the mundane...

1. Exercise - Take a long walk, dance, run, or stretch. It gets the blood flowing and the endorphins flying.

2. Try another creative project like cooking, baking, painting, crafting, gardening, or sewing. It causes you to think differently.

3. Find some writing prompts and write for 10-15 minutes a day. There are a lot of books and free online sites with great ideas. You may be surprised at what you discover. This will also help you with your "write every day" goal.

4. Go on a photography adventure. Take lots of pictures. Make it a day trip and share it with someone. I use a lot of these photos in my blog or on social media.

5. Read a book. Pick one in another genre and read for fun.

6. Go on a writing retreat. There are low cost ways to make it happen. Combine this with a vacation or go camping. Or plan your own writer's retreat at home. Find a new, quiet place and write. Coffee shops and libraries also work for a change of scenery.

7. Mix up your writing location for a day. Go outside or change rooms. Go somewhere different.

8. Go somewhere and people-watch. Take notes on what you observe. Write down snippets of dialogue. You never know what'll be useful in a future story.

9. Take a class. Learn something new. Many colleges, libraries, and art centers offer low-cost courses. Our local school system offers a variety of technical and fun courses. There are also many free or low-cost online courses.

10. Volunteer.  There are a lot of worthwhile groups that need assistance. You have skills and talents they can use.

The Best Advice I've Received about Writing

I am so fortunate to be a part of several writing groups, anthologies, and a critique group. The other writers are so supportive and willing to share what does and doesn't work for them. Here are the best pieces of advice that I've received over the years.

1. Keep writing. If you're marketing or querying a book, make sure that you're also working on your next book.

2. Don't give up. You're going to get a lot of feedback and negative comments. Make sure you learn what you can from the feedback. Then keep going. Don't let bad reviews paralyze you.

3. You can't expect to sell one hundred books at every signing. If you get to meet readers, booksellers, and librarians, then it was a good signing. Relationships and contacts are important too.

4. When you do appearances or signings, make sure you're well stocked with pens, bookmarks, giveaways, and candy. Always bring good candy. Chocolate is a hands-down favorite.

5. Know what your budget is for marketing your book and stick to it.

6. Use your new book to create interest in your earlier works.

7. Know what your budget is for conferences, memberships, and writing workshops. Work on your craft, but remember your primary job is to write your next book.

8. Social media and other marketing are key for authors. It's expected these days that the author has a key role in this. Just make sure that you balance this with your writing time.

9. Invest in your headshot/author photo. And make sure to update it as years pass.

10. If you're not able to create and maintain your website, invest in someone who can. You are your brand, and your graphics, website, business card, and marketing materials should look professional and branded.

How to Conquer Writer's Doubt

Self-doubt - It rears up and can take over.  It's those thoughts that creep in and make you question what you're doing. Am I wasting my time on my writing? Will I ever get published? Will my books sell? What if I get bad reviews?

It's good to review and assess what you're doing periodically. That's how you improve. But those thoughts shouldn't consume you or stop you in your tracks.

You have to be persistent. If you give up, you will never be published. If something isn't working for you, switch it up and try something else.

You need to acknowledge that writing is work. It is very rare that someone has a perfect first (or fourth) draft. Going to critique group, polishing the manuscript, revising, editing, and proofreading take time. To do it right, you have to put in the time.

As a writer, you will be required to market yourself and your book. It takes money, time, and energy. To keep fans interested in your social media sites, you need to post good content regularly and interact with people. But you need to balance this with your writing time.

You are going to get rejections and negative comments. Deal with them in your own way and then move on. Exercise is always a good way to work out the anger. Don't get obsessed about your number of followers, your sales numbers, or the reviews. Check on them occasionally, but don't let them take over.

Your job is to write your next book. Don't be paralyzed by the worries and doubts. There are always going to be challenges. If writing is worth it to you, you've got to commit to it and learn how to control that little doubting voice in your head. Work to improve your craft and write your next piece.

Fighting the Chaos - Organizational Tips for Writers

When my desk gets too cluttered, I have to stop and straighten it. For some reason, chaos creeps in when I'm writing. And I have to be able to find things. Here are some tips to help organize your writing life.

Calendars - Pick a calendar and use it regularly. I maintain the blog rotation for a couple of writing blogs. It's like herding cats sometimes when lots of folks are involved. My friend Tina Glasneck suggested Google Calendar, and it's been a lifesaver. I loaded up our blogging schedule and gave everyone access to it. It's a great way to keep us organized.

Keeping Your Plot in Order - I plot my novels chapter by chapter on paper. I use a Word table, but you can use index cards, paper/pen, Excel, or any number of mind-mapping or drawing tools. I color code the parts that have romance, comedy, clues, and action. This helps me see where they're located throughout the story and allows me to spread them out. It also is incredibly useful later when you're editing.

Keeping up with the Details - I write a short biography of each main character and important location in my novels. I use a Word table. Then I add to it as I revise the work. I use this to keep up with hair color, eye color, favorite foods, cars, pets, and any other little detail that I could forget. I have a separate column for each book in the series, and I can track which characters appear in which book. It definitely helps with the details when you're revising.

Idea File - I keep a notebook with me to jot down ideas (e.g. ideas, names, funny phrases, and interesting stories). I used to keep a manila folder with pictures and ideas. I keep these on my computer now. I also use Pinterest to save ideas, recipes, and photos of great locations.

Contacts - I put all of my contacts in Outlook. I add a note to help me remember where I met the person. Also, when people give me a business card, I write the location on the back to help me remember later.

One Location - Have one location where you keep all of one thing (e.g. keys, papers, ideas, photos, etc.). It sounds simple, but with every-day life, things get misplaced too easily. And you waste a lot of time hunting for them. 

By keeping the minutia under control, you have more time for writing. Best wishes for your writing projects!

Book Signings: The Weird, The Wacky, and The Wonderful

I love book signings and panel presentations. I enjoy meeting and talking to readers and other writers. Though my writer friends warmed me when I started that I'd be asked numerous times where the bathroom was. Their other sage advice was for me to bring candy - lots of chocolate candy. 

I am part of an anthology series, and we did over fifty-four events in a year and a half to promote Virginia is for Mysteries. I learned early in my writing career that book signings are always more fun with other authors. It's a party with the anthology authors get together. But we did have some wonderful and unusual experiences...

At my very first book signing, I pocketed my pen and phone and left my purse in my car. I signed one book, and the pen died. Thankfully, mom was there to rescue me with a spare. I now pack a bag with all kinds of supplies and giveaways.

I had the great pleasure to sign a book for Dr. Hal Poe (descendant of the Father of the Mystery) at the Poe Museum in Richmond, VA. I also had the opportunity to meet Dashiell Hammett's granddaughter at an event in Raleigh, NC. Two fan girl moments for me!

At one of our signings in North Carolina, a man asked the authors at my end of the table if the book had any stories about aliens in it. When we told him no, he proceeded to tell us about how he had been abducted from a farmhouse and the time he spent on a spaceship. He went into great detail about bright lights and probes.

We did a mystery panel in Charlottesville one year, and we were seated on a small stage in a large lecture hall. Afterwards during the signing, a woman told me that I needed more lipstick. I wasn't quite sure how to respond. I thought she was selling cosmetics or drumming up clients for a makeup business. After a long pause, she said, "Your lips disappear in the back of the room." I guess, she just wanted me to wear darker lipstick.

And on more than one occasion, people have asked me to read and critique their manuscript (which they happened to have in their car). My answer is always to talk about my critique group and my writing group. And how they are wonderful resources for constructive feedback.

We are in the process of scheduling events for our second anthology, and my debut novel, Secret Lives and Private Eyes comes out on June 20.  I look forward to all the fun and the great stories.  Do you have any wacky or wonderful signing experiences?

Yvonne Saxon and Me in Virginia Beach, VA

Meredith Cole, Me, and Jayne Ormerod at the Library of Virginia in Richmond, VA

Rosie Shomaker, Teresa Inge, Vivian Lawry, Me, Maggie King, and Yvonne Saxon at the Poe Museum in Richmond, VA